Never, this might give him the message that i dont love him...which would be wrong...i will want to go with silent improvement...doing it myself and then asking him to help me with this or that...and then after few days asking him to do a little with me making any excuses ...and then a bit more..
actually sometimes the problem towards any improvement is the first step...i know he is happy with the outlook he has...and i m sure he will be happy with the other one also...else it will not take him time to comeback to his old routines.