relationship of marriage is like give and take...the way one behaves with the other he/she gets it back...if one of them is showing dissatisfaction from the outer look of the partner... then the other gets it back quiet possible with the way they complete their work or the salary...and the common is dissatifaction...
usually couples criticize on looks and that has brought stress on the other..for example..the other day a lady with freckles and much healthy physique waz saying my husband isnot happy with my looks...and the problem waz her health...she had digestion problem...which affected her outer look...
now in this case..i dont think criticism did any work...and i dont think constructive criticism will also do anything...but mutual work towards it and motivation..can be helpful...

yah...if for someone physical appearance is so important...then i think they shouldnot get married...

...well the outer beauty is that which u hve mentioned in the last two lines...when talking abt media thought of beauty...and the other day i waz reading abt an asian husband ...which is [Only Registered and Activated Users Can See Links. Click Here To Register...]

when talking abt fitness beauty, then for sure this attracts many...now abt drawing a line somewhere..and i think that changes from person to person...defination of beauty might be similar to many...but when it comes to living with them(partner)...everything is abt want..what does one want from their partner.