It's not that I am expecting them to fly all over to my place, it is inevitable. Some people are caught in the motion of back and forth; they just can't get out of the loop. I don't know if it's their nature or if it's the way they were brought up in their dysfunctional families but I do know that they're always in for more. Being me, I can only care for a certain period of time, beyond which they cease to exist for me.