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Old 07-22-2008, 06:26 AM
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Flower talking talking not barking

Half the conflicts in the world are because of the tongue. There are many different attitudes of man behind the task of talking. The reason for too much talking is
- Restlessness

- Egoism

- teasing nature

- showing off knowledge

- eagerness



If it is necessary to talk, do talk but do not say anything that causes a conflict. If you talk with ardors or with sarcasm, it will cause a fight. If you talk with the thought of putting someone down, it will cause a fight. Sometimes, something said in jest can also cause a fight. If you say something with obstinacy, that can cause a fight too. Therefore, avoid such circumstances such that there are no fights.



- talk pleasantly

- talk sweetly

- talk briefly

- talk softly

- talk thoughtfully

- talk peacefully

- talk slowly



Then you will notice your speech becoming more valuable and having a permanent effect on others. Never make your speech like scissors, make it like a needle since a scissor cuts whereas a needle joins. Your speech is the mirror to your personality. Therefore, it is more important to know proper speech and to observe speech discipline. Make sure your speech does not become the cause for any fights. And move forward.You will experience a lot of happiness.



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