Emotional cheating happens when you:

* Discuss your partner and relationships with your “friend.” You share your fears, hopes, and dreams (this is emotional intimacy).
* Meet your “friend” for dinner or lunch without telling your partner.
* Keep your computer, files, and internet sites password-protected.
* Hide or are secretive about your life, relationships, and activities.
* Keep your partner waiting while you spend time with your “friend.”
* Stay in regular, intimate contact with ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends. Emotional cheating can spring from close relationships with past lovers.



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