*~ Spotlessoul in Dt's spotlight ;)

Asalam O alikum Friends.

Today's guest on spotlight is a very dear friend of mine ... very masoom si sharati and on top of everything choti choti si baat peh naraz hoti hai and mind it only for 3-4 secs* hehe!

Please welcome her on hot seat.. Miss Hira ...

U'r Host,

NInA

wa aleikum assalam...

Welcome hira...meri naznein...
ab maza aayega...hira k sath...

first questions set,
what attracts u to someone?

how do u feel when someone tells u abt his/her acheivements?

why do i usually find u talking abt sea and ocean?

wat habit do u want to change about urself?

abhi k liye itne...

Well.. what to say

I seriously was shocked when i heard about my interview over here.. I mean i dun find a single proper reason behind this.My answers will consist of crap and they will do nothing except wasting one's time.. But anyhow,am here just for Nina Siso As she wanted me to be here..

I will be coming up with answers soon InshAllah.. Am in bit hurry right now.Appologies to Jiya

Well for the sake of being original, pray, let me ask you some questions.

Why the hell is that quote embeded deep in your signature? Don't you think it's virtually unreadable?

Why spotlesssoul as your ID? What does that really mean? Do you like to think of yourself as a mere soul?

You don't really follow up the posts on your own threads. Don't you think it's unfair for those who eagerly join your topics?

Given the chance, what'd you like to be at DesiTwist: An adamant leader or a servile follower?

aww..its ok...take ur time...as far as wasting time is concerned...then give ur best...

Abhi tak answers kyun nahin aaye Hira?

ye teen chaar questions mein itney din lag rahe hein tumhein?

am also waiting to read ur responses sis...then will ask som questions of my own

What attracts you to someone?

Well..Respect is something which wins my heart in seconds.. I feel comfortable with ones who know how to give and take respect.. Rest, Intelligence is something which helps in making a person special to me in no time .. People closed to me are special and unique in their own way..


How do u feel when someone tells u abt his/her acheivements?

Depends on my closeness with that 'someone'..

If that someone is a stranger then i shall only smile wishing her/him happiness and good luck in future as well.. But if that someone is one of my closed ones,my beloved,then his/her achievements will make ME proud..Mujhe toot ke pyaar aata aur naaz hota hai..I try to follow the steps of that person..considering his/her achievements setting a goal/inspiration for me..

Why do i usually find u talking about sea and ocean?

Oopsie..I wonder when you have YOU seen me pondering on seas and oceans..

Well.. I dunno why..but it gives me pleasure to observe both clouds and waves of ocean..Both of them force me to derive a theme from their view..I find myself closed to them because i learn a lot from their changing behaviours ..Like you see,Badal garajnay se barasnay tak itnay roop badaltay hain ke insaan ko seekhnay kay buhat sey mavaq'eh farahim karte hain..Unn se ulajhne main buhat maza aata hai mujhe..Same goes for waves,jo baytaabi ya distructive nature unn main mehsoos ki ja sakti hai.. wo meri roohani taskeen ka bayes banti hai..Shayad yeh sab mill kar meri zaat ka aik hisa honey ka ehsaas baydaar karte hain..

Wat habit do u want to change about yourself??

Umm *thinking*.. Tough one.. because i never thought before that i shall ever get a chance to change any of my habits intentionally.. Situations have been bringing changes in me..Or i should better correct myself.. I can't and won't change my any habit.. Kyunke i belive kay humari shaksiyat(personality) buhat see partoon aur pehl'on (layers) per mushtamil (consist) hoti hai..Aur raah-e-hayat main halaat-o-waqiyaat humari zaat kay tamam pehl'on ko samnay zaroor lay ker aatay hain..Har insaan ki sarisht main jo dakhil kar diya gaya..ussay wo badal nahi sakta ya uss se inkaar nahi kar sakta.. Woh uss ki fitrat main shamil hota hai..Bas sirf kuch adatain kuch specific halat ke sath makhsoos hoti hain..aur unhi ke sath bahir aati hain..aur jab wo halat khatam ho jayen tow khud bakhud dabb jati hain..Iss main humara ikhtiyaar halat ko sudharnay per tow chal sakta hai per apnay aap ko badalnay per nahi..that's what i believe now..

[ Why the hell is that quote embeded deep in your signature? Don't you think it's virtually unreadable?

Aham aham.. *embaressed*.. When i tried to edit the size of this quote.. problem of space had taken place.I still preferred it be a part of my signature because quotes i have in my signature represent the main theme of my mind at that specific time.


[ Why spotlesssoul as your ID? What does that really mean? Do you like to think of yourself as a mere soul?

To tell you truly, i never had plan/intention to select it as my nick.I was getting myself registered in a site and at that very moment this nick clicked my mind..Only reason i can think of is that i was too much into Rohaniyat those days.But after that,this nick became part of my personality(i wonder if it has adhesive effects) .. I dun think i am a pure soul..but at least this nick tries to remind me of my actual origin..and i try to revive the basics..and lesson to revive purity in my heart and soul.


[ You don't really follow up the posts on your own threads. Don't you think it's unfair for those who eagerly join your topics?

Umm.. You're right beyond any doubt. I have actually lost interest in being regular at any site..and that's the reason which keeps me away to reply everyone..(Despite of the fact that i have always been here as a silent reader).. I though shall try to be regular on my part now onwards.


[ Given the chance, what'd you like to be at DesiTwist: An adamant leader or a servile follower?

Neither an adamant leader nor a servile follower.I dun think both of these posts match my personality.

wow .. wonderful answers sisooo! I'll post my questions after aftari ..

Walaikum Asalam

Interview acha tha betta per expectations zara aur ziyada thein

Mere Questions:

- Sahi ghalat ka faisla kitna asan ya mushkil hotta hai aap k liye? reasons bhi batayega

- Faarigh time mein mostly kya karti hein aap?

- Gar do logon mein se kisi aik ko chunna ho tou kounsi points pe focus kareingi aur kyun?

- Koi aise asool hein jo tum zaroor follow karti ho? Gar hein tou kounse?

- Kya aap un logon mein se jinhein lagta hai k sab kuch dekh/samajh liya hai duniya mein ya aqal-e-qul khud ko samajhtey hein. Gar nahin tou aap kya sochti ho is baarey mein woh batayein

PS: mein kafi neend mein hoon abhi so don't expect anything better than that werna kal aur neend mein new post kardoongi.

Thankyou Nina sis

Aur Aapi your questions are like :d K...ee ho poori ki poori I was really surprised But time is not allowing me to do justice with these questions.. I shall be answering them by this sunday,InshALLAH.

Okies Hira...mujhe intizar rahega

-Sahi ghalat ka faisla kitna asan ya mushkil hotta hai aap k liye? reasons bhi batayega..

Hmm.. Ba'az auqaat buhat asaan hota hai..jab ke ba'az auqaat buhat mushkil.

Asaan unn sooratoon main jab wo faisla sirf aur sirf apni zaat ke barey mein leina ho..ya phir kisi ajnabi ke barey main.. ya kissi aisi baat per meray jazbay hissa na hon bulkay meri tarbiyat ya seekhi hoye baton ki involvement ho..

Aur mushkil unn sooratoon main jab meray apnay ya jinn se muhabbat karti hoon,un ki zindagiyan bhee uss faislay ki lapait mein ayen..Ya phir meray damagh aur dil ka takrao ho.. Ya mere apne ander koi laraye/jang ya uljhao create ho chuka ho..

Reasons saaf wazeh hain.. Uss waqt meri zaat se ziada ehmiyat unn zindagiyon ki hoti hai jo meray sath juri hoon.Jo muhabbat mujhe unn se hai wo koi bhee faisla akela lenay main sath nahi deti..aur be chaini apne hisaar mein lay leti hai..

Aisi soorat main .. Allah hamesha meray kuch apnon ko wo uljhao door karne..dhund hatta ke manzar wazeh karne ka zariya banata hai.. aur bai chaini inn dino mein tilawat sun ke door ho jati hai foran..


- Faarigh time mein mostly kya karti hein aap?

Ah'am ah'am.. Kissi zamanay main buhat kuch kia kartee thee..Abb tow bas pc tak he mehdood ho ke reh gaye hoon.. Ya phir book-reading..


- Gar do logon mein se kisi aik ko chunna ho tou kounsi points pe focus kareingi aur kyun?

Errmm..That actually differs in my real life and my cyber life relations.

It also gets changed depending on my closeness with both persons.
If they are strangers or someone i don't know properly.. then usually i consider their attitudes and approach towards life and take suggestions from ones who are closed to me.. If anyone is stranger for me but closed to someone I love, then that person makes her/his place in my life in no time.

But if.. you are talking abt case in which both persons are closed to me..then it becomes a real tough decision for me.. I then ask help from my ALLAH to choose the correct one and consider behaviours,attitudes,approaches,visions and most of all,respect which i get from them.. And normally,then My ALLAH helps me out by making someone a source to guide me over that issue..and it always clears the confusion in my mind.

Rest,what i have learned and what i believe is that that when a decision was made out of two, right one was chosen, always..

- Koi aise asool hein jo tum zaroor follow karti ho? Gar hein tou kounse?

Aik waqt tha jab kuch usool banaye thay meine bhee apni zindagi mein: ) Aur wo main follow bhee kartee rahee hamesha.. untill and unless meri muhabbatoon aur usoolon main se mujhe kisi aik ko chun'na parr gaya tha..

Rishtay flexibility chahtay hain aur usoolon ki dhund main hum aksar buhat see batain jo humare apnoon se juri hotee hain,nazar andaz kar jate hain..Issi aik baat ko samne rakh ker maine muhabbaton he ko tarj'eeh dee..

Per agar main apni zindagi per nazar dauraoon tow kuch batain aisi hain... jo abb tak meri zaat ka aik pehlu hain..Unhain main apne asool tow nahi per apni sooch,khuahishat aur approach ka hisa zaroor manti hoon.. Unn main se aik ye hai ke mujhe koi bhee rishta apne ghar walon se chupp kar nahi qaim karna.. Aur har rishtay main behesiyat-e-musalman aur behesiyat-e-larki boundries ka lihaaz bhee rakhna hai.(Aik rishtey main me apne track se hatti tow nahi..per bhool zaror gaye per Allah ne aik buhat he pyaray se apnay ko zariya bana ker mujhe yaad dahani kara dee) Aur aik aur baat jhai.. ke ALLAH ke ilava kisi ke aagay hath phailana ya denay ki umeed rakhna mujhe sakht na pasand hai..Aur mangne main meri jhijak kuch arse pehlay tak itnee rahe key mein apne waldain tak se zarorat ki chez ke bare mein bhee kuch nahi kehti thee.. Farmaish tak nahi hote thee meri koi..Abb kuch arsay se aa ke,jinn se buhat ziada closed hon,unn se pyaar mein farmaesh kar deti hon koi..per unn ki janib se kuch bhee milne ki ummeed bhee ALLAH he ki taraf hoti hai

Aur baqi..main aaj kal..aik achha musalman ban'ne ki kooshish kar rahee hon..aur aik musalman ke wohi usool o zavabit hotey hain jo ALLAH aur Uss kay Pyare Nabi SallaALLAH Ho Alehi Wasalam ne tayh kiye hain..

- Kya aap un logon mein se jinhein lagta hai k sab kuch dekh/samajh liya hai duniya mein ya aqal-e-qul khud ko samajhtey hein. Gar nahin tou aap kya sochti ho is baarey mein woh batayein


Yeh sooch meray khiyalat ka hisa bani thee kuch arsa pehlay.. buhat shiddat sey... per mujhe apna aap aqal-e-qul nahi bulke yeh lagta tha key kamm umri main zindagiyon ke kuch pehl'on ki aagahi meray liye masa'el kharay kar rahe hai..jissay hum "Azaab e shaoor" se tabeer detay hain.. Mujhe lagta tha ke maine itna kuch jaan liya hai ke mazeed jan'ne ki justujo khatam ho rahee hai meray ander jesay..

Per yeh kefiyat uss waqt aik buhat bari bhool main tabdeel ho gayen jab pay darpay ALLAH meri hesiyat meray samne lay ker aaya.. Aik baar nahi buhat baar : ) Main apne ooper Allah ki nazr-e-karam iss hawale se samajhti hoon ke jab bhee aisa koi khiyaal meri sooch ki haddoon per apna ghar banata hai tow kuch he arsay main ALLAH meray samne halaat ko aisa roop at'aa karta hai key mujhe apni wuq'at ka andaza ho jata hai..Mujhe andaza ho jata hai k mein sirf rait ka putla hoon,jissay ALLAH chahay tow pal bharr mein matti ke dher mein milla dey..wo bhee aisay ke koi naam-o-nishaan na baqi rahay..Mujhe yaqeen ho jata hai ke mein sirf rait kay aik bay zarar zarray ya darakht se alehda ke aik na cheez pattay ki manind hon jissay ALLAH he apne hathon se thaam ker izzat o takreem deta ya..ya soochne ki salahiyat...Wo na chahay tow main kuch bhee nahin hoon..

Maine jab jab apne aap per sirf bharoosa kia,wo bhe iss tarah ke ALLAH ke reham ko bhool gaye tow uss ka nateeja bhee dekha hai maine Aur yahan tak.. kay maine jab ALLAH kay ghar mein apney aap ko Uss ke naik bandoon main se hone ki ashad khwahish kee tow ALLAH ne buhat se cheezain meray samne wazeh kar deen...

Issliye aisi koi sooch.. abb meray khialoon main door door tak nahi aati.. : )