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Old 10-13-2006, 12:08 AM
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Theme Of The Week: Casts & Marriage

Hello & Salaam To All DT'ians .

I am starting this weekly topic again (after such a long time!!) that will discuss a particular theme each week. And every week I will update it with a new theme..!


And this weeks theme are:
Cast(s) & Marriage .

Many Asian boys and girls these days have difficulties finding the right partner for the future and many of these Asians are limited to marrying into their cast and only their cast.

This is because of pressure from family and also their upbringing. However, more and more Asians are marrying out of their own caste and this sometimes causes a lot of tension in their families.. Even leading to families disowning their children.

So my questions and discussion related to this theme is :

Would you marry someone outside your cast?

How would your family feel about this?

What will the consequences be?



I'll share mine answers soon!
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Old 10-24-2006, 04:27 PM
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Thanks

Would you marry someone outside your cast?
Yes

How would your family feel about this?
Happy

What will the consequences be?

A BIG HAPPY FAMILY

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Old 10-28-2006, 05:37 AM
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Thanks for ur answers

Would you marry someone outside your cast?

Yes I would. Coz we dnt care abt casts and dat stuff...


How would your family feel about this?

they wud be happy i think

What will the consequences be?

Hmm...nothing...
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Old 10-28-2006, 07:12 AM
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I wouldnt marry out of caste, my khaandhaan is VERY particular about this, but a few of my cousins have recently gotten married out of caste and were obviously not like by the rest. I dont care about castes at all, but I kno that Im getting married to my cousin so I guess it doesnt matter.
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?

No.

How would your family feel about this?

Answer three pretty much sums it up.

What will the consequences be?

Death.
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?

Yes

How would your family feel about this?

They Will be ok With that But They will prefer To do in Family

What will the consequences be?

Normal.. or nothing
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Old 10-30-2006, 09:07 AM
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?
I have already decided to marry someone outside my caste.

How would your family feel about this?
They have shown no concerns on religion or caste as long as i am happy and content.

What will the consequences be?
Like fairy tals---We live happily ever after.
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?
Yes

How would your family feel about this?
they will feel happy

What will the consequences be?
i will try my level best to make mine and his life as sound as i can
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nice repiles everyone
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?
No- cause thats wat ma parent want from me

How would your family feel about this?

they will feel happiest with their decision being accepted by me.

What will the consequences be?

i dont know but hope is for the best inshaAllah.
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i like this topic now what new theme question! rep added
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?
no cauz my cast is Islam n i think islam main essa koi tazkara bhi nahi hea.

How would your family feel about this?

my familly dn't belive in this stupid stuff,mere khayall say it's only our deeds which makes us god n bad not ny f****ng cast.

What will the consequences be?
off course nothing.
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Old 11-03-2006, 07:30 PM
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?

Yes I will
How would your family feel about this?

They will not accept my couple
What will the consequences be?
I will try to make happy our family
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?
no cauz my cast is Islam n i think islam main essa koi tazkara bhi nahi hea.

How would your family feel about this?

my familly dn't belive in this stupid stuff,mere khayall say it's only our deeds which makes us god n bad not ny f****ng cast.

What will the consequences be?
off course nothing.

are yaar..cast ka matlab religion nei ho tha.. ZAAT ko kehte hein cast
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Would you marry someone outside your cast?
yes im going to marry someone outside my cast

How would your family feel about this?
they are happy
What will the consequences be?
nothing
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