TOTM: Women really free from social rules?

When talking abt social rules...yes there are some parts of the world where society does bind a women in web of rules usually found in man dominated areas or sadiyon se chali rasmon ki wajah se.
I used to think that women hve to sacrifice a lot but i waz wrong when i saw man also suffering the same way...within one particular society or family if u break a rule...not only u ...ur grandchildren will also have to pay for that...but nowadays education and awareness have enlighted many families not their parents...but it did their children...when we talk abt freedom...then what is freedom?
i think both men and women are in one way or the other sacrificing...if lady is listening to inlaws then gents are listening outside from their boss...its just that they dont tell abt it usually.
if girl has to listen to parents ... guys also have to..must have heard of marriages in the age of 16-19..for these girls there must hve been similar age boys also.
Yes u r right Govt does work more on mens team than on ladies...i think it depends on the place...if u r staying in Afghanistan for God sake dont say that ..but if the same family has been living in Usa for more than 4 yrs...then for sure u can say. ..surrounding helps change the views indirectly

did u ask the management/cashier..why do they do this...

of what i know ...here also in some places the salary for lady is less than what a guy would get...and the reason they say which isnot reasonable...but there it is...
that when a guy gets married...he has an increase in his pay...to some hundreds...
when a lady gets pregnant...she gets payment for all the days she didnot come..
having these facilities does make a difference in the whole management.

I live in UK and I think its pretty much fair here ..
And I really ain't clear whats the issue here? Women ain't free or they ain't considered equal to men?

No one is (or should be) allowed to evade social rules. If a sociey considers its bad to have a one night stand, it doesn't matter if its a guy or a girl, both are considered equally wrong. If a society considers dating is wrong, same for that. Now if you're thinkin 'oh guys get away with dating in Pakistan/UK/Timbaktu/Mars, I can easily counter it with 'oh girls do it today, not all guys go on dates with goris'

Another point to ponder about, why do moms prefer son over daughters? I seriously don't want to know the answer but I believe you will understand when you'll get married and have a son. The point I'm trying to pose here is you just can't go on blaming men for this because I've seen lots of families where women hold the authority and they prefer boys over girls?

One final word, a bit off-topic, I've believed from the start, girls are way better than guys (on certain fronts). They are more sensitive, they can absorb more, they are better at understanding, they can multi-task better, but I somehow always come to the same conclusion that they are competing on a wrong front. They can do much more, bring happniess and provide peace to the whole family by being an important part of a society. For that they do not have to surpass any man, they certainly do not need to be hightest mark scorer at the school/college/university, for that they just have to be good daughter/wife/mother. Mothers shape boys AND girls, that is the very reason why female tutors are more common for kids going to KG.

I'm not saying I agree to the all the harrassments, I certainly ain't saying I agree to all those narrow minded families who overlook girls over guys, what I'm saying is a wife can be equal to the husband by staying in home and doing the job as a house-wife whereas the husband take cares of the outside. You do not have to do the same thing to be considered equal, and the day woman realise this, that day will definately make a lot of peoples' life better, much better.

Ugh whats with the cut and paste factor here?

My opinion: I agree with you, Aadi.

Thats what I found weird, instead of trying to counter an argument, she started going on about 'WE' should do this 'WE' should do that .. Not to be offensive at all, how many girls have been rapped on Desi Twist, or how many guys have raped that use Desi Twist? Making it sound like 'WE' did something wrong and 'WE' should take a stand?!

Lol ditto

lol @ women

women should be banned from the driver seat of any car.

Here they're driving buses and honestly it sucks.

.10c question: Whos a misogynist?

yoooouuuuuuu? (idk what that word means)

Me? no! I love not being a misogynist while being one during the course of not being one just to make sure that I am the one.