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Originally Posted by HOP3_L3SS
things are changing. arranged marriages are not what they once were. now mostly parents are the source of introduction. guy and girl meet, talk, however they want to and see if they click. the decision is totally upto the couple.
i dont know what part of the world you live in...but most of the arranged marriages i've seen...it's not JUST the girl showing herself
do you know the kind of questions thrown at men?
doesnt the GUY have to be on his best behavior? because he has an EQUAL chance of rejection?
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And even before having a face to face introduction with one another both the female and the male have a chance to say no if they don't want to meet the other person.
Arranged marriages are not forced upon these days nor or they a way to get rid of a daughter or son because they are too old for the market or have done things to make them neligible.
The guy has much of the same chances of being rejected as the girl because of his behavior/ background.
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Originally Posted by dsjeya
in a muslim family in india it does not happen
even during marriage bride sits in a separate enclosure
tying of knots done by a female relative of groom
thank god they r allowed to meet in the first night!!!
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wow..that's just low.