Bf/Gf past matter?

Suppose u r in a relationship where ur partner is having an ex...would u like/force to know that ...does that really matter..If yes..to which extent...and if no...then wat makes u say that...in other words...Should you know about every relationship your significant other has had before they met you?

Dear Rahen, good question. Well I think you should not ask anything from the past of your partner regarding love bcz it may hurt you.

but does it matter to know?
as far as i know couples do question abt their past...if they dont...then other person says it by them self..

if its a matter of cheating or something then yes, i would like to know. If not then they can keep it to themselves

I don't mind her telling me about her ex's cuz really I don't care about them...they made a mistake of losing the best gf they could have had...their loss...my gain

good going sunny and muzi...keep it up...

It does matter, but not too much cuz its in the past but One shud share their previous relationships with their partner, that way there is openness and honesty

It doesn't matter and I can do good without it. If she needs to talk about it for the sake of just getting the message across then sure, I am comfortable with that and it won't move me an inch hither or thither. It's what you're today that matters -- past is over and future is a fantasy.

better to live today
rather than worrying about the past except when somebody trying to blackmail;
stand by your partner and protect

nice thoughts everyone...

i whould like to know abt it but i will not force

Generally speaking, in some ways it is important, because it shows past dating behaviors, etc. and helps you measure her/his thought pattern.

On the other hand, knowing too much about someone's past is never, ever good. It is given that you'll hear something that'll freak you out, or that you will see her/him do something and wonder, 'Is this the first sign of what she/he did last time?" or something like that.

Personally speaking, it's not important to me unless echoes from the past creeps into present and ruin it.

past is past and should be closed..by all means...when getting into new relationship...but yes the problem arises when the past enters...and here many couples get disturbed...with the thought being cheated...shak enters in the relationship...

i think so it doesnt matter much coz knowing the past might hurt the feelings

...and what if 'it' creeps into your present?