did i get the best life partner

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's Weighing on your mind.



Here's the answer.



EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with Your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked Their idiosyncrasies.



Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a Completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.



People in love sometimes say, " I was swept of my feet." Think about the Imagery of that _expression. It implies that you were just standing There; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.



Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.



But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the Natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls Become a bother ( if they come at all), touch is not always welcome ( when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.



The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you Think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.



At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, " Did I marry The right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of The love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.



This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their Unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.



Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is The most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.



But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.



I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You Could.



And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because ( listen carefully to this):



THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find " LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the _expression " the labor of love."



Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it Takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.



Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific Things you can do ( with or without your spouse ) to succeed with your marriage.



Just as there are physical laws of the universe ( such as gravity),



There are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise Program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your Relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. You can " make" love.



Love in marriage is indeed a " decision"... Not just a feeling.

wow, I don't believe dsjeya has posted this Finally something positive about marriage and relationships
Well...it's a sad truth but if you are truly sincere to your partner and to your God then you won't ever think of looking here and there to find your peace. Every relationship needs some effort and above all "Faithfulness".

i am living with my only wife for the past 33 years tulip friend
she has ordered a pearl ring for my coming birthday on 14 th november
there is an age difference between u people and me
to make u feel at home with me
i am posting intresting sex topics for you
otherwise u people will call me sir
and keep me at a distance

there are seven girls working in my hospital
my wife has complete faith(i am old)on me

so give and take
ignoring minor irritants
forgiving faults
mutual appreciation for even small favours
giving some financial independence to the partner
r some hints for long married life

lovely tips Dsjeya I agree with all of them.

try them in your life tulip friend

Yes i am trying and i'll Thanks Dsjeya.

surprising


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phir zubaan kiyun pardesi???

desi bano desi kaho desi likho desi kaho

welcome friend kallikurti
share your experienc 2

is this really written by you?

welcome friend hop
y not

Kaalikurti, Khush aamdeed Desitwist main. Hum desi bhi changi boltey hain. Ap ayen to sahi. Umeed hai k dobara mulaqat hogi yahan.
Rab Rakha.

compared to your other posts, looks nothing like your writing style
oh well! =)

aawww...maaf kar dein =p
aur har jagah sirf DESI zaban he ISTAMAL ho rahi hai
ye sirf yahin pehli tehreer angrezi mein thi
to appe ap angrizi likhe gayi =p
shama chahte hain


LOL aaww

ofcourse you are right
i am changing hop