Diversity in relationships

Rahen, my friend, I guess you are just looking at the positive side of it. Yes, diversity can be very good in some cases but have you ever thought what if your partner likes going to discos while you completely hate it? what if he wants you to wear western clothes every time you go out with him while you don't like wearing such stuff? what if he annoys you by always telling you the right way (his way) of doing things? What if he don't even pay a little attention to things you love the most?
Now tell me what good is this going to do for your relationship?

as i said i will appreciate sameness in religion and culture...and before marriage family and the guy is over looked.
firstly my choice of guys wouldnot like to go to disco..and if he wants to go ...he will go not with me...but with his frnds.
if he wants me to wear western clothes...we can discuss on that...his choices are not his last word...we can choose an alternative...some of western outfits are also good.
his way of doing things...wouldnot annoy me..i will love to know and listen as if i actually dont know...and also because i want to keep listening to him while he shares his experience...even if it is silly.
communication is the key...i will let him know what i feel and think...what i want and what are my plans...and he will listen that when spoken at the right time.
with solving minor problems ...we actually get able to solve major problems in life.

i understand what u mean by all those question...although i hve answered those..and to be true..that is not an issue for me...everything takes time and patience.. communication is the key...no one stays the same for years except some habits.
If i hve signed the papers of acceptance or in other words commitment...i will stay committed to that...until it is not an abuse as matches are made in heave..and tulip...our lives are revolving around our religion and culture and if we have this as common...more than half of the problems are already solved...nowadays there is cross culture marriages and there are also cross religion marriages...some are happy and some are not.

Rahen sis, you're not making sense.

hmm...the summary is...60% of diversity and 40% of sameness (religion, culture) is good for the relationship...

What if you don't have a choice rahen?

my life is not my decision...i m living with the wonderful luck i m born with..shukar al hamdALLAH.