Friends first?

It's usual for a relationship to end up in another relationship ala transformation. So, were you friends before getting the cupid to hit you? Alternatively, were you not friends when you fell in love? I'd like to hear your opinions on whats works and what doesn't work. There got to be some benefits I am not aware of.

offtopic: great signature ahssas..lovely...

topic: usually in colleges and universities this kind of relationship transformation does take turn...and i dunno much abt it..

So all of you were friends before you fell in love and your opinion is that it helps in the long run. Anyone who took a different approach?

I believe, it will be a plus to get to know the person as friends first. So apparently i agree to members above. Everything starts with a friendship once, wether one label it with the tag or not. However, afterwards gradually it transforms to 'Love'. At least, that's what i believe. Though, if one fall in love on first sight or for some other reasons. It can be a lot different and unsual relationship, which needs much more effort to keep it normal and to make it a long lasting relationship.

I wasnt friends wit him b4. There r pros and cons to both being friends b4 a relationship and not being friends. Obviously, being friends b4 is great, cuz u kno the person already and are comfortable wit them. But not being friends b4 hand gives a sort of excitement that u r wit someone and are learning about them, getting to kno bout them. However, it can also b that the relationship wont work cuz as we get to kno more and more bout the person, we might not like many things bout them. I think being friends b4hand just makes it safer and easier

Yah frndship to turn love coz a long time pass wid his/her so ap us ko hr tarhan se parakh lyte han and all ppl demand dat his/her lifepatner us ki copy ho.