Getting Serious? 5 Things You Must Know

Getting Serious? 5 Things You Must Know
In the early stages of your romance, all that mattered was that you could agree on what movie to see or where to go for dinner. But if things are getting serious, it's time to find out if you're on the same page on these big issues.

It's All About the Benjamins

More than any other issue, couples fight about money. And that's probably going to be true regardless of how compatible you are otherwise. That said, though, you can minimize those clashes by making sure early that you're the same - or at least similar - pages when it comes to how, where and why your money is spent.

Let's Talk About Sex

Right after money as a fight issue, there's sex. Hopefully, you both agree that you should be having it. And agree that what you are having is pretty darn good. But do you agree on the frequency with which you're having it (or not)? Are your needs, or tolerance, for kink compatible?

Family Matters...

How important are your families to you? When things get share-the holidays serious, whose family will you spend them with? Are you going to be expected to see them regularly? Or just show up on major feast days? While we're talking about family - will you be having one? For most folks, the baby issue is pretty non-negotiable... do you want kids? How many? And how will you be raising them?

...And Other Big Important Life Issues

So, will you be living in the suburbs, the city, or out in the sticks? How willing are you to move if your partner's dream job opened up somewhere else? Is someone staying home with the kids, or will you both be climbing the corporate ladder?

Can You Compromise?

So those are the kind of things you need to be thinking about. Basically, if it's important to you, it's important to your union. All those other issues might not matter?as long as you're on the same page when it comes to compromise. Know what issues are dealbreakers for you and which ones you'd be willing to cut some slack on.

good pointers

abhi kuch nahi kaha jasakta

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yeah that is true you know... couples should listen to that advice!

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ya the adevice is good but one Big Point EGO... always it is matter of Ego...there is no point of EGO in love

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