How Easy Is It REALLY

i think if ppl hurts u or cheats u and then they realize their mistake and say sorry to u ..u shud forgive them..but once a trust is broken it cant be recoverd again if recovered then i'll not be like before..jis tarah kehtai hain dosti glass ki tarah hoti hai ..glass agar tot bhi jaye to jurr jata hai magar usmai aik crack hamesha k liye reh jata hai..

in short its easy to forgive but to trust again on the same ppl is the hard part..

It is definately hard when people cheat on you, as I have found out the hard way
Shikari bhai, just for all intense and purposes lets just say your girlfriend cheats on you. Would you be able to forgive her, even if she does realize her mistake? If you say yes, you are very noble and i salute you, but think about it. Its the hardest thing to forgive someone who has cheated on you, i partially still havent even though now she is going out with my best friend.

Hi Yasra

Kisne kaha asaan hai? Kabhi asaan nahin hotta per achi baat zaroor hai, kehtey hein badla leinne se mauf karne walla behter hotta hai. Aur ziyada mushkil ya takleef de hotta hai agar woh insaan hamarey ziyada qareeb ho, Per agar hum us relationship ko aagey berhana chahtey hein..saath rehna chahtey hein tou kya behter nahin k mauf ker k, saaf dil k saath raha jaye? Haan agar ghalati ya gunaah itna barra hai k aap mauf nahin karsaktey ya nahin karna chahtey tou phir apne apne rastey hojayein, kyun k us saath rehne ka koi maqsad nahin reh jata na hi koi acha result nikal sakta hai phir. Alag nahin hosaktey tou dar guzar karein..mauf kardein aur aagey berhein zindagi k taraf saath saath

Thanx 4 replying..

Fairy baji--apne jo baat kahi hai woh tho bilkil sahi hai...sath rehne ke liye maaf kardena bohut zaroori hai..but i hav found that with myself, its easy to say I forgive u...but dil se maaf karna mere liye bohut mushkil hai, baat koi bhi ho. Its a big prob 4 me

Well mushkil sub k liye hi hotta hai Yasra buhat kam log itne achey hottey hein jo zabaan aur dil dono se mauf kardein.
Depend karta hai k hum us bandey se kitna pyaar kartey hein...per jitna ziyada karengey uski koi harkat humein utna hi ziyada dukh deigi but again selfless pyaar hi humein us waqt dil barra rakhne ki aur dar guzar karne ki taqat detta hai

I wish you all the best

Naila--really...so u believe in secong chance, thats nice to kno

Fairy baji--yea, I kno som people who r like this..selfless, and its very hard 2 b that way

Aitdal pasand hona chahie insan ko. Agar ziada kissi ko muaf kerte rahe to woh aik din apka takhta ulat de ga or phir aap kuch nahi ker saken gey except for maybe the usual haye haye and this/that sucks. Usi tarha humen thora narmi bhi baratni chahiye, har waqt apne roab ka danka nahi bajana chahiye kyun k dosra shaks bhi insan hai jis se ghalati ho sakti hai.

yea.. agree wid adeell..


ye baat kisi aur ko bhi samghani chiyee..

one thing i hate ppl who cheat or betray...it quite same
i do not want anyone to forgive them if they do so...but sometimes of the situation i can...

to forgive someone is a big thing n it is to make ur heart big...but itt all depends on the type of thing that person has done with u...n so with the situation i can forgive ppl or not forgive them...

Sirf kissi aur ko nahi sab ko hi samjhne chahiye

This is all about understanding..if one is understanding I think then they can put the other person b4 themselves and be understanding enough 2 4give

There are offenses that you can't forgive especially when they put a scar on the foundation of your relationship.