How to propose a guy ...

How to propose a guy...hmmmm nice topic ...nice thoughts ...something different...i like it..

good ...but what do u think...how should a girl propose a guy?

very easy propose me

are you ready for converting to islam Rahul sethi

in my opinion, its easy if the girl's confident and bold enough.. she just needs enough self confidence to actually go up to a guy and tell him that she likes him.. and if he wants to be friends as she wants to get to know him better.. that'll let the guy know that she likes him, without putting her in an awkward situation.. if the guy turns out to be a loser.. she can always back away saying that he is a loser or the trademarked line, 'We're just friends'

do gents like bold ladies or timid veiled ones

that varies from person to person...
for example, i like a girl who's confident enough to make her own decisions, but at the same time, has a strong hold on our cultural values..
boldness doesn't mean that the girl will adorn vulgarity.. it just means she's not afraid to make her own decisions and decide what she wants to do with her life.. who has a sense of her own identity.. such 'bold' girls can also be 'veiled'.. bold girls don't necessarily have to have several boyfriends and such..

timid girls are always oppressed, and suppressed by our indo-pak and arabesque societies and that is where we indulge in injustice and gender bias..
when we look for a girl for marriage, we prefer someone who has never had a boyfriend, and doesn't talk to guys, however, when it comes to us, we routinely run after girls and try our level best to get laid, or at least talk to as many girls as we can so we can 'pass our time'..

i'd say that's gender bias and injustice in my honest opinion..

hypocrisy is the opt word to describe gents behavior
with girls in the subcontinent
but in south india girls are bold in hindu and christianity

quite true.. men are hypocrites everywhere, not just in the subcontinent..
and as far as the boldness of girls is concerned, girls are bold everywhere.. even in the middle east and specially in pakistan, where everyone considers a veiled girl to be 'oppressed'..
self confidence is not inhibited or encouraged by any specific religion, but it is encouraged in all, regardless of gender..
infact, religion states that men and women are equal, and have equal rights and freedoms.. as well as restrictions

thank u
Quiet Whisper
my friend abdul jabar has a daughter.she did m.a journalism,and working in times of india
she puts no veil and used to shake hands with gents as a greeting,she is very beautiful
but no takers
finally a groom settled in the u.s said o.k for nikah

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well
the fact of the matter is that quite a few guys are hypocrites.. and the thing with the subcontinent is that most people that are currently over 35 years of age are very conservative..
if you look at the number of professional females we have here in pakistan, its not that hard for them to find guys.. however, most of them put their careers before their family life so that is one reason why parents are hesitant to marry their sons off to professional females..
infact, let me give you the example of my boss, she's 33 years old, is very very career oriented, and is very very broad minded.. her mother passed away when she was in her teens.. she grew up away from her father, mostly with her uncles and aunts, or abroad.. she got engaged last year, the guy's a business man, his family is very conservative, but the guy wasn't.. he liked her, proposed to her, she said yes.. they'll get married this december i guess..
the fact of the matter is, hypocracy is the killer in arab and south east asian communities.. we prefer girls in skirts as girlfriends but look for a 'timid and veiled' girl as wives..
the sooner we change our mentalities, the sooner society starts functioning like a single unit rather than several units with significant variations between them.. the sooner this happens, the sooner this world becomes a much better place to live

if this is going to be the majority view of pakistani young men it is really a great change
in india house keeping girls lost to professionals
doctor marrys a doctor bride
engineer prefers engineer
nice post Quiet Whisper

thank you dsjeya
this view is shared by a great many guys and girls of my generation, as well as those younger than us.. just hope it gets translated to our preceding generations, as well as our coming generations
at the core of all this is education.. the better educated people are, the better the society becomes.. its not about getting 'more' education, but about getting 'better' education.. quality vs quantity..
hopefully
things will get better soon and people will start behaving more maturely towards change

any comments endurer friend