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  Discuss Humsafar se mulakat ab aasan at the Love & Relationships; Assalam aleikum, Waz going through post that i came across this advertisement from shaadi.com...which said ...

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Old 05-23-2008, 11:47 AM
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Humsafar se mulakat ab aasan

Assalam aleikum,
Waz going through post that i came across this advertisement from shaadi.com...which said humsafar se mulakat ab aasan...the idea of the thread
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Is it easy for you to meet your gf/bf ...aap ko kin kin cheezon ka sahara lena parta hai..kuch log jhoot ka sahara, kuch behnon ka aur kuch doston ka...to meet him/her..phone par calls tau ho sakti hain...but when it comes to meeting that is rare..when waz the last time u met him/her.
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Old 05-23-2008, 05:48 PM
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Aheeeem eik baat kahoon...its VERY VERY difficult to meet him! woh kisi aur city mein rehta hai... BIIIG distance! main usko 3 baar milne ghai hoon...ziada tar to woh aya hai... but haan...maine dosto ka bhi sahara lia hai...aur thora sa jhoot ka bhi i wont lie here but...kya karti..koi aur rasta nai tha...hmm...but now in july im moving to Oslo..where he lives then its NO problem to meet him i can meet him everyday! and im soooo happy! kasme ...4 saal ke baad hum eik hi sheher me rahenge...uff cant wait

last time i met him was in march...
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Old 05-23-2008, 08:06 PM
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oh waoo...thats great...phir tau bara maza aayega oslo mein...mashaALLAH...
mene sirf 2 times apni frnd ki help ki to meet him when he came to dubai for visit...they met through net...and live really far...she lives in dubai...and he in germany...
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Old 05-23-2008, 10:57 PM
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hmm :P that's cool sweeto i am so happy for u ... btw it will be now easier for me to come to Oslo :r lol...

Well, i don't have any BF .. but i've helped one of my friends to meet his GF .. :P
haan ager mera BF hota tau jhoot bolne ki kia zaroorat hai :P mera case different hai as i live alone so usse for coffee or shopping center mein milne mein mujhe probs nai hoti :P even i tell ma mom abt ma male friends
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Old 05-24-2008, 01:25 AM
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oh waoo...thats great...phir tau bara maza aayega oslo mein...mashaALLAH...
mene sirf 2 times apni frnd ki help ki to meet him when he came to dubai for visit...they met through net...and live really far...she lives in dubai...and he in germany...
ya Oh...we also met through net
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hmm :P that's cool sweeto i am so happy for u ... btw it will be now easier for me to come to Oslo :r lol...

Well, i don't have any BF .. but i've helped one of my friends to meet his GF .. :P
haan ager mera BF hota tau jhoot bolne ki kia zaroorat hai :P mera case different hai as i live alone so usse for coffee or shopping center mein milne mein mujhe probs nai hoti :P even i tell ma mom abt ma male friends
thanks jaanu yayy...phir to tum ati rehna karna
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thanks jaanu yayy...phir to tum ati rehna karna
haan kyun nai .. phele tum shift tau ho jao
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ya Oh...we also met through net
ohh wao...that means u r for net relationship..good..before i thought net relationship are made for timepass...and then finish with it..but then as time spent by...thoughts changed..and then now i think if one does gets a good partner online...why not..but must be careful.
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yup...have to be really careful...but we didnt met before after 2 3 years...we have been friendz for 5 years ago...but when we knew everything abt each other...then finnaly the LOVE was there...between us and then we thought...y not meet each other... so..we met up...after 2 3 years...and i think dats good..coz we knew each other very well before we met... aur mujhe uspe bohat bharosa tha...isi wajah se usse mili...
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Hummm that's lovely sis. I believe the piece of advice i can give you is .. Make sure what you are doing is good for your faith, hereafter and your religion. Are you guys thinking to get married in future? Then do discuss this topic with him, if finding it hard to disclose it in front of parents then let an elder person talk to them ... at least you can make the move and see what is the response by your parents.. i m mentioning this cuz den u can be sure k future mein ja ker koi probs nai hoon gi .. otherwise who knows what's gonna happen??? You gotta take it wisely.. most of couple keep it secret until they are ready to get married and when they disclose it to parents.. there are hurrdles n etc.. so make sure completely that what you have choosen is best for you.

here is something i've just red be4 replying here and i wanna share it to u personally.

On the authority of Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah, salAllahu alayhi wa salla, said: "Seek out that which benefits you,seek help only from Allah and never say you can't do it. "If any adversity comes to you, do not say: 'If I hadonly acted in such-and-such a way, it would have beensuch-and-such;' but instead, say: 'Allah has decreed (it)and what He willed, He has done,' for verily, (the word) (if)opens the way for the work of Satan." - Saheeh Muslim [Lessons from this hadith] If there is something that willbenefit you, make every effort and go after it! Seek it out.There is no failure, only lessons.

May Allah bless you both and May Allah helps you throughout! Amen
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suma ameen..and the same goes for you too...ameen suma ameen..

i loved the hadith...it actually helped me with something...jazakALLAH alf khair...
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Mere liye humsafar se mulakat bhi bohut mushkil hai, jab bhi hum mile muje bohut ahead main plan karna padta tha...apni sis ki help leni padti thi aur friends se bhi
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hve u ever thought of telling to ur parents or family meeting...if u did...then when did u thought waz the right time...
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