Love - Forgiveness Is True Love

Most of the lovers do not forgive their loved ones. They may forgive their sworn enemy, but they may not forgive their lover.

Do you agree with me? Why is this so? It should have been exactly reverse. Why, let us discuss.

What is love?

What do we understand by loving someone?

How is love different than other relationships and emotions?

In love, we give our whole mind and heart to our beloved. We try to keep our beloved most comfortable.

We take care not to hurt our darling. In love, we care for each other. We are in the mood of giving in love. Giving always gives more pleasure in love than anything else.

If our darling makes a mistake, shall we berate them? Shall we blame them and give them pain? Shall we hold it against them forever? Shall we call them betrayer?

If we do all this then it is not love, but a business relationship. I have given you so much now you give your truth, faithfulness and everything else in return.

In love, we have to forgive. We have to pacify our beloved that mistakes are a way of life and everybody does them. We have to tell them not to worry and we are with them. We have to tell them to stop thinking of what happened and think of good things and try to live life joyously.

But a majority of us behaves in reverse. That is our failure. It was never love to begin with. If you believe that you love your darling, please learn forgiving

This is a great lesson sis but unfortunately not many people understand it. I myself hav a hard time forgiving easily...its one of my downfalls. I dont kno why it is this way, probably cuz I get hurt deeply too easily but it is somthing I need to work on. But somtimes it is very difficult to forgiv because wen we lov someone so much we expect good things in return and wen we dont get that it really hurts...som mistakes r very difficult to forgiv on

I agree that when you love someone you have to forgive your love..

sometimes he/she hurt you so badly that you just wanna punish him/her but you can't cause some people are forgiving by nature..

I think to be always forgiving may make others to use you or play with your emotions and then say sorry so easily.. that's y you have to be careful..

Love is being Honest with Yourself
at all times....
Being Honest with other person
at all times....
Telling,Listening,Respecting the Truth
& Never Pretending....

Love is Source of Reality....

well said everyone...

i think that there are some mistakes which can be forgiven...and some are simply not after being given chances to recover..

yes i do agree with u but rahen is also right u had to lern forgiveness if u luv someone from heart i knw its difficult but then if u really then u had 2 go 4 it

as i said a quote in the last post of mine tht do as much as u can but in return never expect anything becoz expectations hurts badly...

ya rijaz u r right im much more experience then u coz i had gone thru this and i knw its not so easy by saying its ok but doing it is very difficult u knw even parents expect returns from thier child then v r just humanbeings i think everybody in this world seeks luv in return so i think its difficult but then life is a challenge dear so u had 2 accept it mi right

Nice Topic Rahen Its Sounds Interesting I Luv 2 Read It Thanx 4 Sharing It With All

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Believe it or not, hate and love are the opposite sides of the same coin.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN Do you agree with me? Why is this so? It should have been exactly reverse. Why, let us discuss.

It's exactly the reverse in my case - No grudge whatsoever. Oh and you reap what you sow.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN What is love?

Anything from a cup of coffee to your entire life and in some extreme cases, it's beyond life.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN What do we understand by loving someone?

Humanity. Period.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN How is love different than other relationships and emotions?

Of all the weird things I had to read here, this one takes the cake.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN In love, we give our whole mind and heart to our beloved. We try to keep our beloved most comfortable.

Who do you speak for? Yourself, or the entire mankind?

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Originally Posted by RAHEN We take care not to hurt our darling. In love, we care for each other. We are in the mood of giving in love. Giving always gives more pleasure in love than anything else.

There is a very thin line between giving in and to give in but thats another issue. Don't you like getting something back in return?

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Originally Posted by RAHEN If our darling makes a mistake, shall we berate them? Shall we blame them and give them pain? Shall we hold it against them forever? Shall we call them betrayer?

I don't condone that but there's always another side to the story.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN If we do all this then it is not love, but a business relationship. I have given you so much now you give your truth, faithfulness and everything else in return.

So, you admit that it is indeed a relationship?

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Originally Posted by RAHEN In love, we have to forgive. We have to pacify our beloved that mistakes are a way of life and everybody does them. We have to tell them not to worry and we are with them. We have to tell them to stop thinking of what happened and think of good things and try to live life joyously.

Thats the way it should be.

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Originally Posted by RAHEN But a majority of us behaves in reverse. That is our failure. It was never love to begin with. If you believe that you love your darling, please learn forgiving

Innocuous, it seems to me.

Well the way I do it is...(if she makes a mistake) sit her down and explain to her what she did wrong, theres no point in yelling or berating her because that will push her away from me and she would wanna do the same thing again just to upset me again.

Just have to explain the person in the most persuasive way you can!

this is a excellent post dear and what you said is so true sis.i hope the men really understands all this to make a world a better place to live in

true love makes the partner happy
forgiving included
on the contrary possessiveness which most girls have in abundance make the partners life miserable