Are marriages more Successful within Family or out of family?

woman power buhat zada hoti hy ager wo kuch ni krti to sirf is waja se k her husband comfortable coz dats womans earing income so some declear issue in marrige life. some case in my life k husband k bad unho ne ghar ko chalaya hy or bacho ki achi parwarish b ki hy

coz I belive on God dat jo woman ko maa ka darja deta hy wo use utni hi power b deta hy so dont agree ur view.

maybe u hvenot seen other religion ladies...cause as far as i hve seen...there are ladies with different religion who are not educated..and are married within family...
education without commonsense is of no use..i think talent is the key ..if one knows a talent...he/she can make a living out of it.no matter who u r..

nice reply dedicated...

thanks aapi.

i don't understand urudu.
education is the key to acquire talent
only a woman who can earn by gainful employment can boldly stand up against ill treatment by husband and in laws and survive after talaq. most muslim woman are uneducated and unfit for employment,their dress code is cumbersome to say the least, not allowed to work with men better marry with in the family and survive with family support
talibans are burning girls schools in afkanisthan

yah education is the key to acquire talent...but for those ladies and men...who havenot been to school...talent like driving, embriodery...works better for them to make a living...

u cant say Most muslim women...cause where there is poverty there is illiterate...and poverty can be
anywhere...rules might make a part illiterate...but poverty brings no education in many ppl's lives and that goes for both guy and gal...

i think u r right abt ladies with gainful employment or no education...and i think that goes for men too..what say?

friend rahen
men also need education and talent,
but this thread is about marriage within family
if a woman is not capable of earning for a living, marriage within family is better
this is the case with most muslim woman

i agree..but this case isnot mostly with muslim women..i guarantee that..

rahen you are in uae just look at the skilled woman expatriates, are there many muslim woman
doctors,engineers
take any woman sport, are there many muslim women

I hv read all replies bt I dont now dat y r u calling only muslim woman in all ur replies.

Do u now dat its time diffrent communities 65% employement only muslim woman in pak. { ( Media 65% ) (Retailler & Banking 45% ) ( Sale & Marketing 80% ) (Defence 20% ) Showbiznes 60% ) and (production 70% ) ( Politicals 35%) } and in my searching 65% female student in collage and uni in pakistan. So y r u calling, Muslim woman is uneducated.

Ok I'll accept ur last reply some time so tell me any girl seccesfully in her tailent or paission so does she seccesfully her marry life. I belive dat all pplz demage one side, if we want 2 b repairing our demage side along good effort, skillies or tailent.

muslim woman are educationaly and employment wise backward that is obvious
alquida 'womens' place is home ,look after husband and children
in pakistan honour killing is in vogue
for any crime woman can be given as compensation to be gang raped
does your data applicable to north west frontier too
good attempt Dedicate_Aquarius keep it up

there arenot also mostly hindu women..or budhist women.
and if u ask me i hve seen majority of the muslim women at high post..be it in hospitals, govt places, Schools, training places etc.
infact we cant say who is ahead here...cause where ever we go ..we dont go by their religion..but by their experience...and my chosen doctors are usually muslim ladies from lebanon or syria.

thanks u bt if u dont mind so tell me, dat y r u calling only muslim womans, coz this prob craeat all community.

if you take the case of women,it is a fact muslim women are more backward,so the need the support of
fasmily to survive,
as for as rahen's comments there are lots of workers from my place but mostly men
all your arguments you are not denying muslim women are backward but say hindu women too
do something for the suppressed and oppressed muslim woman

In today's generation doesnot a man need the support of women ..in any religion they belong..when it comes to earning.?

i said that because i dont find muslim woman here backward neither hindu women or buddist women...women from all religion are working..infact both of them are earning and making a living..as if they need eachother(husband and wife)...and it is a muslim country..so its natural to find muslim ruling here...whether lady or gentleman.

now when it comes to saying that muslim women are backward...i totally disagree...dsjeya...a question is crossing my mind...what do u mean by backward...does it mean a lady who doesnot earn and isnot educated according to you?

and as the topic says...i agree when u said that if a lady isnot broad mind...she should prefer marriages within family...cause accepting a new place and culture and lifestyle and adapting to it..is something everyone takes their own time..some adapt to the place..and some dont even after 8 yrs of marriage..
i know marriage is all abt keeping ones identity alive...but when it comes to socializing..many changes takes place naturally.

rahen i am confused, you are saying in this time ,both husband and wife should work and earn
in the same post if a woman is not educated not in a position to work she is not backward in development ???
i am ready to accept the fact that indian hindu women are backward in development compared to christian woman
what about saoudi women not allowed to drive