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Old 05-28-2008, 07:14 PM
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Are marriages more Successful within Family or out of family?

Assalam aliekum/ Hello

What do u think
which marriages are successful?
marriage done within the family or out of family...

what do u think are the problems faced by when done within family...
and what changes one has to go through when done out of family..

what do u prefer for ur self...and why
the topic is vast...take ur space to share ur views.
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Old 05-28-2008, 10:11 PM
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medically speaking marriage with in family will bring weak off springs
cross pollination best
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Old 05-28-2008, 11:06 PM
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zaroori to nai ke famili me ki howi marriages succesful rahen...it depends...
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Old 05-28-2008, 11:46 PM
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I agree, with both of you. It depends, I don't know how it works for others but getting married in my family is outta question. So alhumdulilah, marraige ka topic maine parents peh chor dia hai to speculate.
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Old 05-29-2008, 04:44 AM
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it doesent matters from family or outside the family , Love 4 eachother & understanding & fair in relationship is a key of success if there is nothing then dont marry...

Problem kaha ahe hoty har jaga hoty hain but inside the family can handel easily and outside the family there are lot mor problems...and i see many cases inside family ok and outside they got problems.

Lot mor changes outside tha family ,totaly new people,new family,u have to make so much compromises if u want to carry ur relationship both girls and boys same problems.

so i prefer Inside the family...
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Old 05-29-2008, 05:42 AM
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inside BHI problems ho sakte hain! and i knw some cases!
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cases...if those can give strong light to this topic..u r most welcome to share...
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Old 05-29-2008, 09:02 AM
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wsalam rahen, it depends on the couple and their mutual understanding/bond. Gar wo mazbut hoga to shadi chalegi no matter it is within family or not aur agar understanding hi na ho do logon ke beech to misunderstandings ya problems create karne wale bohot hen dono cases mein.
agar mujse pucha jae to i'll prefer out of family, like most of the gals these days.
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outside more successful...inside too many family matters
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inside-just calls for too much 'butting-in' with personal issues..where they have no right to be - and i say this from personal experience..not with myself, but people within my family...i've seen family members stick their noses in relationships were by doing so they only cause the couple to split apart bc of having outsiders, in this case family members, meddle with their relationship

marriages within the family are possible, but you really must have a family that is close, but not one to always be in the couples business
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it dose not matter if it's inside or outside of family. As long as both partners love each and are sincere with each other their marriage will be successful. no matter what happens.
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if you are broad minded outside marraiage
otherwise marry a relative
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hamesha kisi b couple k drmeyan prob bedroom se shoro hote hain tu I think life ko sccesfully banane k ly ek dosre ko samjna zarori hy 2nd pint it with in faimly or with out faimly so 50% prob creat his/her relative member. dats use ye diya tu use b ye dena tha use bulaya tu use b bulana tha ect. so 1st of all manage ur life in ur buget or ek dosre pr itemad ho wase jahan bartan ho awaz tu aati hi hy.
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inside BHI problems ho sakte hain! and i knw some cases!
Inside outside both have many problems if there is no love...BUt of there is love than no matters Marriage is inside or outside...MAny cases inside successful and many cases outside but Main problems reason is RELATIVES.. so stay away taking effects of relatives talking...only trust and love eachother and ur close family members...

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muslim woman are not educated,can not find a job and stand on their own legs, marriage with in family is a safe bet
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