till divorce do us part

Traditional marriage vows: To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part.

The way I see the world today, I read it as: To kick and to scold, from this day forward, for conflicts, for selfishness, for me, for myself, in sickness or in discomfort, to scream and to yell 'till divorce do us part.

Why do marriages fail? It's become a norm for the divorce deed to splash forward.

...hmm..the concept that majority of the couples have nowadays is " i want to be happy and that is my right to ask for" and another one as 50%-50%.

Now there can be many reasons for marital failure much nowadays as compared to in the past.

The negetive pattern of thinking which worsens the situation and mostly seen in many houses. Where Both of them respond eachother back and forth with negetive comments continuously which in return makes the conversation hostile or full blown fight...Every house has one or more than one reasons to fight on everytime as an example throwing away the garbage or cleaning the room etc...when these fights over small things carryon it gets both of them angry and then they say mean things to eachother covering failures and past mistakes. Usually it is ended with a knife on the heart. I think that both of them should control their tongue instead of using it to hurt the other afterall they hve to live together.

second reason jisse mujhe bari chir hoti hai...woh hai..when one of them tries to finish off the identity of the other person's feelings, thoughts, ideas, personality, making him/her feel like a useless tool in the home. Usually not allowing her to meet her frnds or get social with the orders that her husband doesnot like it... making him/her feel that she is the problem maker all the time..or phrases like " i forgot how lucky i m to be married to you"..imposing their choice on the other one...I think here partners should listen and respect eachother's viewpoint and bring concern in their communication.

third reason would be when both of them are tired of eachother's mind reading negetively.and when they do talk abt it they get tired of explaining their innocence.
trust and positive outlook is the requirement with proofs...and when u see the partners have started to ignore eachother or avoid communicating or seeing eachother...i think that is the time when divorce does apart them.

I think for any success of relationship one should put forward the happiness of the other one before herself/himself...compromising where needed...and staying strong where needed...and yes they should shoot "I" with "we" to really enjoy marriage blissfully.

There r just too many probs that get in the way...many times love is not enough. Financial stress, relatives, personal clashes, these are all reosons marriages fail. I think wen an issue comes up repeatedly, there really is nothing the two people can do but live with it...and most times they cannot and decide to seperate.

only one prob to case of divorce or relation fighting REDUCE INCOME RESOURCES

yah usually families with children to upbring.

bilkul aapi ku k ager financial tor pr insan powerful na ho tu use phir gusa hi aata rheta hy or ye hi sabab jhagre ka bais bnta hy.

v.true...seen in many places...when there comes in the payment for rent, food, sanitary, fees for kids...every month...then yes..tension barh jati hai...kuch log agar chadar sambhal kar bhi kharcha karein..tab bhi puri nahi hoti...

when one oneupmanship comes to play divorce is the result

and how does that get possible..
is it by letting the other person only follow the orders...

women are getting more salary,more independent
55% 0f males have orgasm every time they have sex
but only 26% of women