1 When he is not honest with her and lies too much.
2 If he is totally insensitive to her needs.
3 When he acts arrogant.
4 If he is too self-centered.
5 When he shows too much interest in other women.
6 When he ignores his own desires to fulfill hers.
7 When he tries to express his feelings for her too early.
8 When a man brags too much about himself.
9 If a man is weak in character and does not stand up to others when challenged (A Wimp).
10 A man exhibits a submissive behavior.
11 When he calls her up too often.
12 When he accepts her demands immediately without any resistance.
13 If he gives in to her manipulative behavior.
14 A man asks her what she wishes to have (meaning not understanding her needs by himself).
15 When he allows her to use him as a doormat.
If we assume that these 15 things top the agenda of what annoys a woman in man, then we will definitely find some inconsistencies in each one of the above. Most men do many of the above things, thinking that they are being nice to women. Is being nice really something wrong? Yes, it would definitely appear so. If you ask her what she wishes to have or if you accept her demands without a fight, you are only being nice to her. How come she does not like it? It is because women think that such a man is weak, a wimp. Wimps annoy them more than anything else does.
The whole thing is quite funny. Very few indulge themselves with costly clothing or jewelry. All the wealth that they amass is spent on fulfilling the needs of women only. Then, where comes this contradiction? It is actually very simple. Women desperately want all their desires fulfilled but they expect the men to do that without asking them. You would have faced this situation in your life very often. Let us say, the birthday of your wife or your girlfriend is approaching. If you buy her a present and give it to her as a last minute surprise, she is immensely pleased most of the time, unless the gift is either very trivial or totally useless in her opinion. On the other hand, if you ask her in advance what she would like to have as her birthday gift, there is a big chance you will annoy her and invite her anger. You remember that happening before, is it not?
Another important aspect in what annoys women is self-centered or arrogant behavior and boastfulness. Women like their men to be practical, down-to-earth, and honest. They want you to be strong but they know very well that you are not a super hero. As such, if you act like one, you are certainly annoying them. Be what you are, never do any play-acting, and you would not annoy your woman.
Women are manipulative by nature. They do like to have men in their control. At the same time, they do not like men who succumb to their manipulations. How can these two be reconciled? That is the million-dollar question for which even psychiatrists and psychoanalysts do not have a clear answer. This is the most difficult thing in man-woman relationship that has to be handled very carefully. Several suggestions had been made about this. The one that appears most practical and genuine is provided here. When you face a situation where the woman is trying to manipulate you, you let her know in a subtle manner that you are fully aware of her intentions. Then you put up a token fight to make it clear to her that you are not going to yield just like that to all her desires and demands. Then finally you give in to her reluctantly. This might not work in all the cases, but it is one method that is likely to be successful most of the time.
Do you understand a woman better now? So, go ahead and win her over!