Forgive

I wondered, how do you find it in your heart to forgive somebody?? As much as it distroys you inside is there a possiblity you can put it behind you and forgive? How ?????

dil ko sukoo ajata hai kisi ko maaf kar ke

For me it's easy to forgive but hard to forget.

same to me

I think u should leave it to Allah, let him deal with the person and move on, u do not have to forgive him/her

Ye tou aur bhi mushkil hogaya us bandey k liye kyun k Allah miyan apne hissey ki ghalatiyan tou shayad maaf bhi kardein per kisi bandey ki dil azari nahin maaf kartey

Tou kya aapne issi sense mein kaha tha? As ussey sazaa milley?

Haan I think Allah par chodh dena chahiye, woh behtar saza de dega

hmmm.its usually easy fo rme to forgive someone. i meanm its simply saying "its okay" but i usuually remeber it for a long time,.

Everyone deserves a second chance.. I think it depends on the kind of relationship you had with the evildoer. I have pardoned everyone I had fell victim to & I do pray & hope that Allah will do the same (ameen).

As far as those memories are concerned, they do still haunt me from time to time & I can't help forget them (memories). I live in the menage a trois of me, my memories & my dreams.

mere liya maaf karna mushkil nahi hai- lekin kuch aise batein hoti hai jo bhoolane se nahi bhoolti. aur woh baatein mostly aisi hoti hai ke next person ne intentionally kiya ho. intentionally tried to hurt. aisi baatein nahi bhoolti- aur agar bhool bhi jayen to us shaks ke samne aane se phir se yaad aane lagti hain.

parayon se to koi shiqwa nahi raha mujhe lekin jab apnon ne ki to dard hoa.

maaf kar dena chahiye- kyunki agar hum Allah ke bando ko maaf na kiya to shayad Allah bhi hummare gunnah maaf na kare- aur secondly agar hum maaf na karen to dil mela rehta hai and i think dat needs to clean up at any cost.

mera yeh nature raha hai. ke me maaf kar deti hoon agar kisi ne intentionally mujhe dukh diya ho lekin yeh bhi hai ke me usse phir second mauqa nahi deti mujhe dukh dene ka. because then its not his/her fault its mine. i will take good care of them, ghar par aayen to izat bhi deti hoon lekin phir se mauqa nahi deti.

Very well said Rahen!

Awesome reply MUjhe aapki ye baatein buhat achi lageen k mauf kardeina chahiye, us k liye nahin ye hum APNE liye hi kartey hein aur apne Allah k liye Aur beherhaal insaan hottey huwey jis takleef se hum khud nahin guzar saktey woh hum kisi aur k liye kese maang saktey hein? Mein yehi soch k subki ghalatiyan maaf kardeti hoon.

Aur..
"mera yeh nature raha hai. ke me maaf kar deti hoon agar kisi ne intentionally mujhe dukh diya ho lekin yeh bhi hai ke me usse phir second mauqa nahi deti mujhe dukh dene ka. because then its not his/her fault its mine. i will take good care of them, ghar par aayen to izat bhi deti hoon lekin phir se mauqa nahi deti."

Can't agree more sis Mein khud bhi aisa hi karti hoon.

Allah aapko hamesha khush rakhey Aameen!

Thanks fairy sis

insaan hottey huwey jis takleef se hum khud nahin guzar saktey woh hum kisi aur k liye kese maang saktey hein-

yeh point acha lag raha hai. lekin mujhe clear nahi- is point ko zara plz clear karengi. "kisi aur ke liye kaise maang sakte hain."

Saza ki baat karahi hoon sis. Agar hum kisi ko us k ghalati (jo usne hamarey saath burra kiya hai) k liye mauf nahin kartey tou Allah miyan bhi ussey nahin mauf kareingey us particular gunaah k liye aur uski saza ussey mileygi.

Hum khud tou Allah k azaab se dartey hein aur touba kartey hein per doosrey ko na baksh ker hum us k liye wohi azaab wohi takleef maang rahey hein! Yehi soch k mein mauf kardeti hoon agar kisi ne mujhse kuch bura bhi kiya ho.

I hope ab aapko clear hogayi hogi baat

ji aap ki baat clear ho gai.Thanks