Jealousy

Salaamzz everyone
Well..This thread is about jealousy..Wat do u think about it? R u a jealous person? If yes, how does it affect u? If not...wat r ur thoughts about this emotion? Share ur thoughts

jealous..i dont know how it feels to be jealous....but i have seen many problems created due to jealousy within family, bro with bro and sis with sis..frnds with eachother.in business almost everywhere...and the end result is mostly nothing..i mean no profit...i know this is not ur required answer..but i believe i have to give it a careful thinking before writing more..

I am not a jealous person in any way; however, I am envious at times. I guess jealousy can be a normal part of life, but I believe if there is real love and trust there in a relationship, then jealousy should not be a problem at all.

Hmmm u r rite Affan bro. But I think jeoulousy is a natural thing which som hav and others dont. Its an emotion that som people liv with and carry it thruout their lives...som r very jeolous when in lov of their partners being seen with someone else.

Or maybe jeoulousy can be connected to possessiveness? wut do u all think?

well, hmm.... i have not been jealous of anything lately...and i can't even remember the last time i was....i don't feel jealous or enveous...but i feel emotionaly touched to see that someone is fortunate enough to have certain gifts by the will of Allah....and others are not...which makes me feel sad and happy....other than that... - i try to acknowledge my feelings in depth to see what exactly i am feeling and what is it that i realy want...which usually leads me into another direction.

That is very great of u...u r a caring and feeling person to care and think of others and acknowledge these things Jeolousy would be the opposite of this

anything out of limit is always bad....and so is the feeling of jealousy...which is not at all good thing if it reaches extreme..i hve seen some ladies saying ma hubby get jealous when i talk friendly with another guy...and to those ladies it shows love...and are happy with it..
but if the same jealousy of the man reaches extreme then its not good in a society..it lets negetive thinking join ...

jealousy can be connected to possesivenes in one way...when its a matter of ur things, ur relations..but then jealousy is also with the person having more than he/she has...

i simply believe in that wat is mine will come to me..as the saying of olders go..dane dane pe likha hota hai khane wale ka naam...jo meri kismat mein hai woh mujhe mile ga..no matter how much i dont want or i want...so to me the point of jealousy never comes..shukar al hamdAllah...but yes..i might feel jealous when ma hubby gives more time to his work than to me...

rahen sis..ur thinking is nice..tru that we will get wut is destined for us no matter wut so jeolousy shouldnt exist..but many people dont see it that way..

hi SALAM.this is shaan i dont think ke jidhar pyar hota hai udhar jealousy hoti hai

.................shaan................

wasalam shan.

I am not & will never be. I can be possessive at times though & I love being dominated by special someones.

wel for me it depends on da sitution for me