Zaat...

zaat waat lol i likey !! ..

Well, hunni we have just discussed this topic on msn.. I feel pitty for the believers of zaat waat. For heavens sake, first of all, it's not religious at all, people are projecting major sins when they mention this. I mean, i believe in Allah n Allah alone.. he is my creator and the next thing i know is that i am ' Muslim' and i have faith on my religion and Allah.

Anyways, alhumdulilah there is no such thing or concept in my family! i have no problems with this zaat waat thing.

wa aleikum assalam...

sis sach kahon tau yeh pre-judgement sirf yahin tak limited nahi hai...its from zaat to zaat, home to home and person to person also...nothing can be done abt it...except yeh k hum khud aisa na karein...
jahan tak shaadi ka sawal hai...tau yeh sach hai k zaat and nasal dekhi jati hai...larke ya larki ka rehan sehan dekha jata hai..where they live..what they do...yeh sub dekha jata hai...

judging a person by zaat in marriage is normal...kyunki har zaat ko aik pehchaan se dekha jata hai..although five fingers are not the same lekin majority of the ppl do the same within one zaat...aur yeh bahut pehle se chala aaraha hai...its not a new thing sisoo...so its like one cant change it...its inbuilt.....

i dont look for zaat paat...as the person himself with family is more important to know...than this.

I think Zaat ka connection insan ky kam sy ziyada jora jata hy yehni keh if they do this they are from this zaat , And also yeh family by family aksar chala ata hy aur mojority of the people from begining their families also do believe Zaat vat by their work and now in this century people are educated they can do now any thing but they also believe in ZAAT so this is in their blood...New generation now dont believe this for them selves but when they become parents and their childrens are big ,tu yehi generation uss waqt apni family and ZAAt ky chakar py amal krna chahti hy ,I m talking about majority of the people not about the all...

Ab jub keh shadi ka matter ho tu then parents Zaat ko importence daity hain.
And i dont believe on this...ZAAT and in shadi matter only achi family and understanding should be importance , as RAHEN says...
MYK

hm I agree wid aapi or Rasol-e-Khuda (p.b.u.h) ne b apne hijatulwida ke muqe par kha tha k
Kale ko gore par or gore ko kale koi fuqiyat hasil ni sb ek jase hain
or jahn tk shadi k silsile ma zaat ka phelo ujgar hota he ya tu wo rishta larki/larke k ghar walo ko pasand ni aya hota hy tu us se chotka\ra hasil krne k ley aise point shoutout kye jty han
or agr kbi wo hi larka/larki fainalcial tor pr masbout ho tu ye sb cheaze khatam ho jati han.

well dedicated...u hve really brought up a really important point..
k agar wohi larka/larki jis ko woh zaat k reason ki wajah se inkaar kar rahe hote hain...agar financially acha/achi ho tau haan bhi kar dete hain...
one of the family i know...larki financially stable thi..tau shaadi k liye haan kar di...aur shaadi k 3 yrs baad...they showed their real face...giving the message that we are not interested in you instead in ur property.

i think agar aik family kisi doosri zaat ki family ko achi tarhan se janti hai...tau phir shaadi se inkaar woh nahi karte...as seen in some families...isliye i think before talking abt girl/guy...family meeting and getting frnds is better.

Jaise ke rahen sis ne kaha, zaat ki baat shuru se chali arahi hai so we cant change it its inbuilt..aur humaare parents zyada thar iss cheez ko consider karte hai, Pak main bhi sab karte hai. I personally dont care bout it...muje tho sirf itna chaiye ke agar family achi hai, than thats enough

Yes only the family matter no Zaat vat ka punga...

yah family sath hai..and especially husband then these things dont matter much in life...i guess.

I agree with you gals .. mujhe tau zaat ka question sochne per hi bohat ajeeb lagta hai aur loag pooch kaise sakte hain i really dnt get it? especially yeh tau barsoon say chala aa raha hai.. i dnt understand why ppl dnt think logically? ..

well i think ma sis can tell you...cause she might hve heard this from someone.

Your sis who?