I am from a desi culture. I feel that most of the time when people hear about it's a girl. They don't get happy as they should be as they do if it's a boy. Boys are already favored when they are not even born. How many of you feel this way. Now everything is changing... but why when a new couple gets married and the first kid they expect it to be a boy? Leave the american society alone. I am specifically talking about Desi Culture.