Love BEFORE marriage or AFTER marriage?

[loves intellegence]

nice topic...

it's not in our hands that we shud love now or after marriage it just happens n if before marriage so it's good but it is like that..that the person which is good for us we love them so if before marriage we love someone so we can get married to them...aur aaj kal tou love is in air everyone is loving someone nor another so love is growing n then u can maary that person...

n after marriage love...so the marriage would be done with someone else choice but also we fall in love sometimes or i think after marriage also falls in love...so it is ok...

but frankly i would like to say before marriage love is nowadays a fashion of love...oops sorry..but that's the truth...

aaj kal love k liye sab dil khule hai aur dosri cheezo k liye no time...

as u might be seeing k 14 till the age of marriage guys n gals have gf n bf...

this is just the truth...

[syeda]

wellllllllll.. ye sawal agar mughse 4 saal pehle poochta to mein kehti.. after marriage love behter ha..

well abhi m say k love is love.. behter aur bura nahi hota wo.. wo apko kabhi bhi ho jata ha.. shadi se pehle aur shadi k baad.. agar na hona ho to kai dafa shadi k baad bhi nahi hota

well wat m trying to sayy.. k hum koi time dekh k to payar karte nahi.. wo to khud ba khud ho jata ha.. shadi se pehle bhi aur shadi k baad bhi..

magaaaaaarr.. shadi k baad ka love means no limitsss.. n shadi se pehla ka love meann loooooooottttttttsss of limitsss :biggrin:

jo ajkal nahi hotaa.. magar ye logon pe depend karta haa.. payar ko koi nahi keh sakta k wo behter ha ya bura.. payar payar hota ha

[Fairy]

Nice thoughts Syeda

[syeda]

thnx fairy

[Quiet Whisper]

hmmm really nice thoughts syeda
i'll share my opinions on this in a few days..

[AaDi]

Love before marriage is transitory and usually ends up in a year or two (thank you infatuation). In some cases love leads to marriage which again can end up in divorce.

Your views?

u forgot one option .. 'never'

personally I think its a waste of time .. space and money .. es se kahein ziada behtar hai care for that person .. atleast insaan hurt toh nahi hota

[crazy_guy]

yo ppl jab kissi ko love huna huta hai na to love yeh nahin dekhta kay app married hu ya single ho blind ho yan ,,...bad hu bass hu gata hai ...so ...better be care ful of this type of diesease..ppl...

[Endurer]

Anytime! I am keeping the lid (mouth, in other words) closed for now.

[Tulip]

I am married already so it's now and forever

[385ashley]

Any time when you got a right partner...