being the other woman

[dsjeya]

:smileydance;:008:always a mistress,never a wife.i love him without tag.we find peace in knowing glances,shared moments.worrying if people would find out what they will say.i glow with secret love.i think mistress is on par with wife.we just own a side of man she does not.we share joys without responsiblities.we console without being involved.but the relationship is fragile.nobody knows about tomorrow,so we each live more fully for today.today,here and now is all about.one day the relationship will end.but tomorrow is another day.

[Tulip]

I don't get what you are trying to say Dsjeya. Do you want to discuss or you are just praising the so called other woman? As for me this is disgusting, every relationship is fragile but whatever you do, do it with dignity at least.

[dsjeya]

sorry tulip
i am not praising or justifying other woman
as long as marriage is there
there will be mistress
so no harm in discussing

[Tulip]

Hmm that's the sad part. Sure, please continue.

[dsjeya]

what motivates a woman to be other woman
well sex is amazing
she is taken care of.it is fun without family
some don't want the stability marriage gives
men are necessary not because we need them but because we want them
the man on his part treats the other woman like a queen
it is the married man who is ankling for an affair

[Shades]

amazin...u wanna say that being a mistress is better than being a wife?,
apparently the life looks gr8 for a mistress, but we analyse its a matter of gr8 pity being a mistress...for e.g if u marry u will get rights, society looks at u in honour, u r safe economically, sexually, mentally, ... u dont hav 2worry much about the future life.. as husband will take care of it in most cases (as in som cases divorce will affect)... The children will hav a name of father ...they will not gain mental problms wich hav a drastic effect on the lives...
But anyway ur wish... as all dis comforts are a dream by being a mistress

[dsjeya]

thank u wicked
why persume men are seduced beyond their will
are they drugged and kidnapped
women fall into the trap by men's mesmerising 3 word i need you
it takes a special kind of women to sustain an affair and be in the social cicle.
whuld a man be called other man ?

[Shades]

I never said that..men are seduced beyond there will...nor I said that they r kidnapped...yes u r right to the point that "women fall into the trap by men", ...But I also sternly believe that extra-martial affairs causes just depression and destruction of family life... wether it might be a man or woman both r guilty...just for sexual enjoyement they destroy complete families n future of their children and there respective too... If a man says I need u... a woman needs to control herself n this she cn co only if she is a pious n caring woman... if she loves her modesty and if she cares for her parents honour and if she cares n loves her husband... she will never fall in trap of a man.. coz she cares for her loved ones more than her sexual desires...
One thing if any knows the taste of many dishes... then he/she might continously long for diffrent taste... but if one is not aware of the other dishes then he/she is contended with what he/she has...

[Shades]

when u r going to enoy sexual life anyhow after the marriage and with all the comforts and safety... then y to get into all this hurdles..., apart from sex in marriage u r respected honoured n loved... so is'nt it better to control the self...
Its all about perception.. i.e how u percieve a concept n thing.. the moment u r sure abtit evils n convinced abt its goodness ... u cn surely come out of this quagmire...

[dsjeya]

how ever much we preach and wish other women will be there
to certain extent other men too
i don't know why old men are attracted to young women they reciprocate
ideal situation does not exist