Originally Posted by
Sporadic @ Sat Feb 25, 2006 7:54 am
Originally Posted by
Kainaat @ Fri Feb 24, 2006 3:13 am
Originally Posted by
manni9 @ Thu Feb 23, 2006 11:06 am
ok Sobia me aap ko 1 xample deta hoon.Larke ke parents Pakistan main hain larka Foriegn aur larki bhi but she is with her familly.Ager larke ke aur bhi bhen bhai hain tou itz ok but ager mera jesa Aklota hea tou itz a problem,phir oparents ka khayal kon rakhega?
2nd he also don't wanna leave the love of hi life.But larki appne gher nahi rehegi shaadi ke baad,aur usske aur bhi bhen bhai hain now tell what should they do
1) parents ka khayaal larka hi rakhega, lekin agar woh jaise ke aap ho, germany mein hai, parents se door to ab kya uske parents uske begair nahin reh rahe, unka khayaal koun rakh raha hai?
Aap kya chahte ho woh kya apne parents ko chodh de, aur itniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii door chali jaye, pakistan fx?
yahan baat yeh hai ke agar woh pakistan se aayi hai, means wahan rahi hai, tab to adjust kar legi apne aapko, but agar woh nahin hai pakistan se, jaise ke main, to woh itni street smart nahin hai jitni pakistan ki larkiyan hoti hain aur usko na sirf adjust karne mein balke logon ko samjne mein bahot arsa lag jayega, aur pakistan mein itna sabar nahin ke larki ko utna time dein jitna usko zaroorat hai. Is liye yeh umeed lagana ke larki apne parents chodh kar, sab friends SAB KUCH chodh kar aik aisi country mein chali jaye, yahan usko koi qatal bhi kar de to qatil asaani se bach jayega, kaise raazi ho sakti hai woh?
Aapka 2nd ka yehi answer hai mere paas, jab aap yeh sab pehle se jaante the to love karne ki zaroorat hi kya hai? aur bhai behan wala mujhe samjh mein nahin aaya.
larki parents ka ghar chorti hai, par itne kareeb hoti hai ke jab chahe aur jab unki madad ki zaroorat ho unke paas ja sakhe, itna door nahin jaati ke wahan se pukare to parents sun bhi na sakhein. mujhe sirf yeh bata do larki akheli nahin ho jayegi, kabhi larke se larai ho gayi to woh kya kare??????
Sobia main tum say itefaaq karta hoon, but 1 thing i must say, k tum itna -ve kiun sochti ho, jo shakhs kissi ladki ko biah kar us k parents say itni door karay ga, woh itna zalim tou nahi hoga, k woh us ladki k saath ziadti karay,
secondly ladai kis ghar main nahi hoti, lekin is ka matlab yeh tou nahi, k aap apnay parents k ghar chali jao, agar aap apnay shohar k ghar raho, tou within hours donon main samjhota hojata hai, parents k ghar janay say baat biggar jati hai, aur khuda na khawasta nobat divorce tak pohanch jati hai lolz
Main -ve sochti hoon
aap mujhe batao almost sab gharon mein saas bahoo ka jagrah nahin, saas yeh nahin sochti ke bahoo ne larke ko qaboo mein kar liya hai??
aur larke aise hote hain ke apni maa ki baat sunte hain, ab agar Pakistan mein larki ka koi na ho aur usse madad ki zaroorat ho to woh kya kare????
Haan parents ke ghar jaane se baat bhikar jaati hai, par itni baat agay bharti hai to yeh naubat aati hai na ke parents ke ghar jaana pare, warna koun larki khushi se talaaq chahegi???
aik ex doon jo maine pehle kaha hai usko underline karne ke liye
aik larki thi yahan ki, larka pakistan ka tha. Dono DK mein rehte the aur unke 2 bache the. Aik din larke ke kaha sab ko beech ke Pakistan vacation par chalte hain wapis a kar new le leinge, larki maan gayi.
Pakistan ja kar larke aur uske gharwalon ne larki ko zaher de kar maar diya, apni 2 choti choti betiyon ke bhare mein bhi nahin socha, ab yeh log zalim nahin?
Aur larka itna zalil tha DK bhag aaya aur Pakistan mein uske gharwale bach gaye.
Doosri taraf, Pakistan mein dowry na laane par, ya susraal walon ke kehne ke mutabiq na lao to patah hai na kya hota hai, zindagi bhar ke tane, jeena mushkil kar dete hain larki ka.
Kehne ko to jo diya jaata hai woh hota hai larki ko, par reality mein aisa kitna hota hai, sab to susralwalon ko diya jaata hai, aur kuch log to maang kar lete hain, aise log kya larki ke saath acha salooq kareinge, ab agar larki ko support karne wala wahan koi na ho to larki kahan jaye?