Marry someone, who already had a relationship?

[spotlesssoul]

Well i will agree with Adeel Bhaya It does not make any difference magar itna khiyaal rakhoon gi ke meri wajah se kissi ka sakoon ya ghar barbaad nahi hona chahiye Doosroon ko takleef de kay hum khushi ka tasavur bhi kesay kar sakte hain bhalla

[Endurer]

if the relation is not physical one then i can think of him but if it has reached physical one then i dont want to spend ma life wid him even if he is ma dream mate.never.

umm I am not surprised to read that but sis don't you think that everyone deserves a second chance?

brother second chance us ke liye hota hai jisse galti hui ho. and if he could after all this leave her- why wouldnot he leave me.

But sis kissi ko ghalti kerne per saza dene chahiye, just because usne kissi aur k sath aisa kiya, lazmi nahi k woh hamare sath bhi aisa hi karey ga.

[RAHEN]

saza hi to de rahi hoon khud ko bhi aur usse bhi (it means nothing to him)apne dream mate ko chor kar. brother me manti hoon ke 5 fingers barabar nahi lekin reality mein mostly aisa hi hota hai. in most cases aik burai ke baad doosri burai aati hai lekin aik burai ke baad achai nahi aati. dats the truth.

[Kainaat]

if the relation is not physical one then i can think of him but if it has reached physical one then i dont want to spend ma life wid him even if he is ma dream mate.never.

aur agar uski shaadi pehle ho chukhi ho aur kisi wajah se alaq ho gaye ho to?

to phir alag hone ki wajah janne ke baad he kuch faisla kiya ja sakta hai. agar shaadi uski wajah se tooti hai to i will have to think carefully lekin agar larki ki wajah se shaadi tooti hai to i can accept him wid his kids.

Same here

[Endurer]

saza hi to de rahi hoon khud ko bhi aur usse bhi (it means nothing to him)apne dream mate ko chor kar. brother me manti hoon ke 5 fingers barabar nahi lekin reality mein mostly aisa hi hota hai. in most cases aik burai ke baad doosri burai aati hai lekin aik burai ke baad achai nahi aati. dats the truth.

With all due respect, I disagree with you.

[RAHEN]

well brother jis baat par aap disagree hain- aise cases bahut rare hote hain.

[waffa]

well i m late here....... n very nice comments of all guyz.........

yai tu QURAN E PAK main clear kar dya gaya hai k jessy murd hoOn gay un k lie wesy he uratain ......

so i think its on u ......

[gitanjali42]

past is past.why we should interferein their past.if we thinks abt it we r fucking up our life.so leave it and we also has a past isnt it :rnop:

[redbeast]

i m totally agree with waffa an gitanjali

[Atlantic]

hey guys...well i read over some of your replies...well..this is what i think...it's definitely not a favourable situaiton tobe in love with someone who has had a physical relationsihp in past..but when you are so deeply in love with that person at the curretn time, it really bothers you breaks your heart andhurts you and is in back of your mind at all times, but at the same time, you love them sooo much that you will except them still with their differences. I think there is probably no one who wants to marry a person who has had a sexual relationship before meeting them...however, it really depends on each individual and the depth of the relationship betwen the couple. Lovers can accept their opponent with differences, but with a stone placed over their heart. if u knw wht i mean!