Moving On? Is it possible?

[Kainaat]

NO.....for me itz never ever possible to move onn........coz i can't forget those moments of love ..........infact, itz difficult for everyone to move on......yaaaar come on aapko agar kissi cheez ki addat ho jaye tou u cant stop it very soon.......but haan time lagta hai......it happened wid me too......but it took alot of time for me to remove those wonderful yaadein....i took whole one year....than i thought yaaar i shud move on....bass aur kuch conditions aisi theen so i had to move onn coz meri aik bohat achi doti meri gf baana chahti thi....so i moved on

So how can u say NO????

[ek garam larki]

yeah u can..
theres more fish in the sea... lol

[Endurer]

well, it does take a lot of time to come out of the relationships, especially if they were pesued for loooong, however, i also think, it also becomes difficult to be completely brainwashed, until your next and perhaps the final relationship of life time: marriage....

Thats where my problems lies.

[Atlantic]

well...Endurer, um...i can understand....i dont know how long has it been since you are stuck in your past.....bt...perhaps...try to get urself bz in other thigs...recognize ur values and dreams u had before that person....sure u will continue to miss that person..belive me...probably until marriage...and remember certain things after marriage too....tha's ok..it's normal...everyone goes through it....ppl have crushes..ppl fall in love, once, twice, and thrice......bt life goes on....so..should you...engage yourself in social activities with your other friends...and push yourself away from past...juggle urself...and wake up!..u need emotional wake up call from someone who is near you..if i were to know you in person...i could really hit you with a wake up bell..if u follow me...

[kalpesh03]

Right bro ! umeed pe duniya kayam hai !! At the end of the day we have to move on... after all life does not stop... its up to us whether to be happy or get stuck in the past

[Kainaat]

well...Endurer, um...i can understand....i dont know how long has it been since you are stuck in your past.....bt...perhaps...try to get urself bz in other thigs...recognize ur values and dreams u had before that person....sure u will continue to miss that person..belive me...probably until marriage...and remember certain things after marriage too....tha's ok..it's normal...everyone goes through it....ppl have crushes..ppl fall in love, once, twice, and thrice......bt life goes on....so..should you...engage yourself in social activities with your other friends...and push yourself away from past...juggle urself...and wake up!..u need emotional wake up call from someone who is near you..if i were to know you in person...i could really hit you with a wake up bell..if u follow me...

I agree with u :up;

[Endurer]

well...Endurer, um...i can understand....i dont know how long has it been since you are stuck in your past.....bt...perhaps...try to get urself bz in other thigs...recognize ur values and dreams u had before that person....sure u will continue to miss that person..belive me...so..should you...engage yourself in social activities with your other friends...and push yourself away from past...juggle urself...and wake up!..u need emotional wake up call from someone who is near you..if i were to know you in person...i could really hit you with a wake up bell..if u follow me...

Not long enough but I am a busy person with a lot of responsibilities to take care of at a day-to-day basis. Realizing is by far the most difficult of things to do.. I am still in that shock period. About the outgoing part.. umm I don't really like to socialize, particularly at this point of time.. though I will try to get rid of this anti-socialism soon.

[Atlantic]

take another appraoch...spend some time alone and really think about how you really feel ofthis matter......do you reall feel what you think you feel..or it's just a thought....Best of Luck!