My past!!!

[ryma]

I lost my love.. I loved him so much.. but now there is some one else who wanna marry me.. My family also wanna me get married with this new person.. Shall I get married? Could I forget my past?!!

Please help me with your advices.

[Endurer]

That hit me hard. I'm pretty much on the same boat as of yourself.

This topic should come in as handy: http://www.desitwist.com/about11060.html

Here are a few questions once you're done reading that topic.

Are you being forced to marry this person?

What is more important to you: Future? Parents? Past?

Do you think that 'you' can manage to keep your past out of your future?

[ryma]

Are you being forced to marry this person?

No im not being forced.. my family understand me..
What is more important to you: Future? Parents? Past?

Most important for me is my Family and my future.

Do you think that 'you' can manage to keep your past out of your future?

I think I can keep my past as sweet memories only with me for me.. And i will continue my life as my destiny coz I know that God's love me and he will choose the right person for me.

[Endurer]

Now thats what I call optimism. Ryma you have a bright future waiting for you. Take chances (thats what life is all about) & live life to the fullest. It's not possible to forget the past but you can make use of your experiences in this long road of life.

Bless you.

[ryma]

Thank you so much for ur care & concern.. May God bless you & hope u find the right love & the right life partner too.. :ye;

Have a nice day..

Take care..

[Endurer]

Thank you Ryma Feel free to ask any question you have related to the OP.

[Kainaat]

I agree with Adeel, if u are so positive and u think u can be a good wife and can love your husband go for it :up;

[wnasir]

I have heard that marriages are from haven. So definately Allah has given birth to a pair. In some phase of life u will definately find her/him (True love). Love cannot be a compromise.
Everything is for good

[RAHEN]

well Ryma welldone :up;

i dont think u need any advices cause u r sensible enough to know wat u have to do.

jazakAllah alf khair

[ryma]

Thank you all so much for your replies & support.. Thank you sooooo much.