What can we do if

[glimmering_candle]

hello



i've got new thred
whe v will discuss abt our feelings for our friends, family memberz, cousins n whoever u eanna talk abt.
here v will talk abt the behaviour of that peson n others will discuss n give tips to that desi member!



ok now lets start.
case 1


there is a person who is ignorin me nowdays. i don't know y he's doin' this
but wat should i do? he don't talk to me n don't even cast any glance at me
wat should i do to take that person on his position back???????????
he's my good friend but for sum days he's not paying attention ?
im worried n wen he look at me tht m worried he do more ignore!
oh how can hw b so cruel?
tell me any thing
how can i meke him jealous of me !


tell me anything?

[Endurer]

Nice topic candle.

Hmm don't do anything that could jeopardize your relationship with that person. Hold on tight for a while and see if he realizes his mistakes. Remember that he is a human being too and he is no different than the rest of us. AFAIT he probably needs some space.

I am moving it to love and relationships

[Atlantic]

perhaps..you can give him the same treatment..yet..keeping your eyes on him at the same time..hee hee...just to see if it makes a difference for him if you are not there....(like u said..he ignores more..if he sees u worried over him)..and perhaps it will foreshadow...how srious this person is about their behaviour towards u...at the same time..be fully aware of your body language towards the person..u want to be part of this ...yet be open to welcome the person....

best of luck!

[ryma]

just ignore him, do as he is doing even if u are caring 4 him or feeling jelous just don't show him that.. control your feelings & let him recognize what wrong he is doing.. God help u frined

[glimmering_candle]

ohhhhhhhh thx guyz for such goood replies



i din't expected that from u ppl!
that any 1 will reply

but now i m
yeah i m ignoring him to but not as well as he's doin'


chalo dekhtay hain
kya hota hai
????????????????????
ok now m waitin' for more replies!

[glimmering_candle]

heheheheehhehe

[RAHEN]

hmm well i think u shouldnot ignore him but give him space.
dont follow him- when he is around busy ur self so that he finds u not looking at him neither ignoring him.
then everything will be clear to u within 1 or 2 week i guess. if he wants to leave then let him go. and if he wants to stay u will know.

[dsjeya]

there r plenty good guys around
just laough it away
easier said

[Nutter]

I don't believe in tit for tat policy, it doesn't work v well in long term relationships. Anyhow, I'd suggest just BE YOURSELF and as Endurer puts it, don't do anything rubbish to jeopardise this relationship. And as Rehan says, give some space and wait. You can't bribe love into staying thats a hardcore fact.

Anyhow, God Bless You!

[glimmering_candle]

assalamo alaikum frenz







now i am sitting on mah chair wid such an ajeeeb situation

he's not interseted in meeh!
i fink he'll get right after a few days ofr weks or months
but he is still doin' that
now he has another girl
i don't know weather he love her or not !
nut y i s he ignoring him??????
i don't love him i m juss a friend a goood friend
he;ll never find a good friend like meeh
now its eid
he is mah first czn also n live in our house
he dint even said eid mubarak to meeh i dont know y is he so cruell?






i think i must change myself n my personality
i've also left him!
but may sis's wedding is near n i dont wanna any clash between us !






he says '' main to mehfilon ki jaan hoon''






means he is a good speakers n everybuddy wanna speak wid him
in this situation i'lll be alone n there will be many people wid him!