Love vs Arrange Marriage

[*Fatima*]

thanks for ur in4mation but i think husband better than lover

[Endurer]

i respect that

[*Fatima*]

me too i respect ur in4mation

[Endurer]

that so very sweet of you fatima sis

[NInA]

[xeon]

I believe in both. If you love some1 u tell u'r parents. because....humari khushi mein unki khushi....n + arrange marrige...automatically ...

in my case its the other way around. maire parents kee khushi main bhi mairee khushi hai.

[syeda]

hmm i agree with xee bhai

[NInA]

I believe in both. If you love some1 u tell u'r parents. because....humari khushi mein unki khushi....n + arrange marrige...automatically ...

in my case its the other way around. maire parents kee khushi main bhi mairee khushi hai.

i agree too...but how about....if u parents dont allow u to marry the person u LOVE .....are u gonna sacrifice...or in other words...comprimise...with the future wife u've never seen or maybe donno much about her?...i knw knowing about eachother doesn't count that much..that u can do after marraige as well...but what ..if u don't LOVE that some1 u marry with PARENTS ki merzi say?....

well..i do agree...but there are lotsa questions around...about it tho!

[syeda]

hmm ye to hai jo perfecto na kaha...magar agar kisi se payar hi na ho to??

aur jahan tak parents ki bat hai unk liye hamein hi sacrifice karna pare ga coz they are our PARENTS ..ye kehna kafi hai unno ne hamare liye bohot sare sacrifice kie hein..jis ko hum measure b nahi karsakte aur na unko poora kar sakte hein

[NInA]

well i do agree ..k parents bohat sacrifice kerte hain etc...but iss ka matlab yeh nahin na..kay humari zindagi (puri ane wali zindagi) ka b faisal bas wohi kerein..aur hum sirf haan mein haan milane wale hoon...kam az kam..humein apni life per 50% tau haq hai na...