well yes i m finding this difference in majority of the homes ... and in our desi homes it is thought and believed that beti ko doosre ghar jana hai...aur old age mein beta sahara banega...possibly this is one of the reason k mostly ppl beta chahte hain ...aur bete ko dad ka right hand bhi kaha jata hai...aur dad ki gair maujudgi mein usse sari zimedari bahar ki di jati hai... aur shayad yehi wajah hai k ...beta pehle manga jata hai ALLAH se...
and jasmine..."bete k liye woh khushi nahi hoti jo bete k liye hoti hai "... and i think that is obvious kyunki both are individual...and dono ki upbringing mein bhi changes hain...but i must say u...mana bete k liye dua ki jati hai...lekin ghar mein khushi beti ki he wajah se hoti hai...see in those homes jahan bete hain lekin beti nahi hai...wahan log taraste hain...k kash hummari aik beti hoti kyunki beti se ghar mein raunak hai...